Anyone who watched the West Wing during its tenure knows that fictional Pres. Jed Bartlett (Martin Sheen) would mark the end of a discussion with the firmly stated question “What’s next?”
I was thinking about “what’s next” yesterday morning. In Northeast Ohio, we’re in the middle of what meterologists are calling a “deep freeze.” January is a tough month for us Ohioans anyway. We’ve got the post holiday let down, and two months of snow and gray skies ahead. It’s hard to find that thing that we’re looking forward to to anchor us.
Even the school kids are feeling it. When fall moves into winter and brings with it the cold, we don’t notice as much because we’re marking time with a series of celebrations: Halloween, Thanksgiving, Christmas.
Not so in January. In January, we’re measuring our lives inĀ Eliot’s coffee spoons, getting from one small moment to the next.
Yesterday morning, I went to wake my girls. Mira (9) asked her usual January morning question: “Did you check the tv? Do we have a snow day?” Then she launched into a teary rant about how hard third grade is and there’s too much homework and we’re never going to get a school day. I sat on the side of her bed and told her that January is like this, and that we just have to get up and get going, and that little by little we’ll feel better, that it’s really about forward motion.
I also pointed out that next week was going to be a good week, that we were getting a new president and the LOST was coming back. “Mommy,” she said, “Those are adult things. I’m a kid. I want a snow day.”
Gwennie (5) tried another tac: “Mommy, you have to check my fever I think I’m sick. I have a tummy ache.” Then she got to the heart of it: “Mommy, I want to stay home with you.”
Corita Kent wrote “Life is a succession of moments. To live each one is to succeed.” That about sums up January in Ohio for all of us, the little ones and the big ones.

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January 15, 2009 at 5:38 pm
crse
Wow, we really do have the what’s next survival method here in Ohio don’t we? We are setting very small goals in my house too, including birthday party countdowns and visits from the neighbor. I’m kind of embarrassed to admit it but I think my kids are taking January much better than I am. In fact, Gwennie is probably taking it better than me too. But we do have our moments to look forward to and it helps. Thanks for making me feel a little hopeful today buddy.
January 15, 2009 at 5:48 pm
Tyler
I’ve always thought February was the hardest month. January at least has New Years and the boost of adrenaline that is supplied by fretting about writing down the correct year.
February seems to have snow from start to finish, which creates a kind of monotony that even its odd day-count can’t quite counteract.
But, hey, at least I can subscribe to follow-up comments on your blog now! That will keep me going for a while
January 15, 2009 at 5:51 pm
buff3
I am looking forward to Spring. I realize it is months away, but with everything lifeless and dead (and snow covered) around us, it is quite amazing to think that in a few months we will be bitching about cutting the grass and pulling weeds! The worse part about this winter is that it snows just enough to prevent us from wanting to leave. We will survive!
January 15, 2009 at 9:14 pm
brooke
oh i love the elliot poem, the coffee spoons line…you’re so wonderful with quotations! also you’re the second person to quote elliot today. strange…
January 16, 2009 at 6:31 am
lucy
Crse, I was dealing with January just fine until today. I. hate. it. My girls, on the other hand, are thrilled by the four day weekend. So it is truly the little things getting us through right now.
Tyler, maybe the academic calendar makes me perceive the months differently, because I always feel like February only lasts for about two days. Plus, it’s so close to March, when we get Spring Break, that I’m a little more hopeful. But I’m glad you figured out the comment thing because I am hopeless.
Buff, I’m looking forward to spring too. I planted crocuses just so that I can have something in my garden that blooms early. I won’t be long before we complain about the heat, but I have to say, I’m always more miserable in the cold. Yes, we will survive.
Brooke, aww, thanks. The coffee spoons line is one of my favorites from Prufrock. The Eliot thing is serendipitous. I blame the cold. It’s making us feel bleak, hence the Eliot.
January 16, 2009 at 6:32 am
lucy
I’m technologically hopeless, that is, otherwise, I’m mostly hopeful.